
8 Reasons Women Abort Again and Again
“I allowed 4 of my children to die through abortion, Sydna,” the caller outlined through tears. “I am a serial killer who deserves prison!”
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Sydna Massé is the founder and CEO of Ramah International and the author of Her Choice to Heal. These are her posts on healing after abortion.
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“I allowed 4 of my children to die through abortion, Sydna,” the caller outlined through tears. “I am a serial killer who deserves prison!”

If you read or hear negative messages that call you a murderer or killer for choosing abortion, remember that you are not alone. To God…

“I feel like I’m in a grief pit with no way out and no one to talk to,” the grandparent of an aborted child painfully shared. “I don’t…

Soon our nation will celebrate Thanksgiving. Gathering with people who could have encouraged or discouraged a choice to abort often…

I never got his name, but I’ll never forget his voice or the brutal touch he used while performing my abortion. In struggling against the…

They say abortion is a woman’s choice. Half an hour earlier, my boyfriend stated he would leave me in the streets of Indianapolis if I…

Last week Internet giant, Google, BANNED pro-life pregnancy centers from buying Adwords related to the term, “abortion.” Organizations or…

Actress Alyssa Milano’s recent #SexStrike campaign reveals the potential future of American society if/when Roe v. Wade is dismantled at…

When a woman leaves an abortion clinic, one is dead, and one is wounded. The wounded woman typically feels immediate relief. That respite…

Democrat pollsters believe they can take back the Senate because they are counting on the female vote. But what about the one third of…

She walked into my office. I could tell she was nervous. When I heard her story I could tell why. She was post-abortive, she had a new…

“My girlfriend wants to have an abortion,” the male caller stated. “Can you help me figure out how I can stop her? She can’t do this…

“I was wondering if you would help connect me with anyone that would be willing to share their abortion story and speak into the darkness…

Aborted children don’t show up on a missing person’s list. Their remains aren’t in mortuaries or funeral homes. They are often…

Many faith-based hearts prayed before they aborted, asking for God to intervene if this wasn’t His will for them. These ambiguous prayers…

This abortion proud hashtag has now been tweeted over 300,000 times. Whatever the reasons for participating in this promotion, the use of…

Our team is here to help anyone struggling after an abortion decision. Please know that there is no sin that God cannot forgive, even…

At some point, God reaches through the darkness of a woman’s self-imposed exile to call His children back into His fellowship. It is then…

Sydna Massé shares the story of how God led her to join an abortion recovery class and the impact that healing had on her ministry…

Revenant is defined as one that returns after death or a long absence. For many post-abortive people, being haunted by their “blob of…

After abortion, women typically work to forget they ever made such a choice. If pain and grief don’t manifest themselves quickly, they can…

If you know a loved one who may be maintaining an abortion secret, confronting them directly about this truth may not be God’s best plan…

“My abortion was far more traumatic than the rape, Sydna,” the young woman shared during an abortion recovery program I was leading. “Why…

Pro-choice efforts to comfort those who may be upset after their abortion typically has only one goal – to reinforce that their abortion…

Sibling abortion grief is often unacknowledged and unprocessed. Many have no clue that they have an aborted brother or sister in heaven…

When questions about abortion come out of the blue, parents are often unprepared for these deeper queries from their young children.

A woman doesn’t make an abortion decision in a bubble. She typically enlists the insight and “wisdom” of others. Many then assume the role…

If healing has yet to be established in their post-abortive heart, the emotional impact of compiling 250-500 words about one of the worst…

If you know someone who may be maintaining an abortion secret, bringing up your knowledge of their abortion directly can be wounding. A…

It was my delight to share about Ramah International’s new online abortion recovery website at HerChoicetoHeal.com. By linking her…

When a woman exits an abortion clinic, leaving her child behind, she is often deeply wounded. She also assumes a new title from society if…

Nowhere in the world is abortion more unusual than in Ireland. One of the few common elements in the South and North of Ireland is the…

We simply should never take God’s fruit as our own. If we take the personal credit for saving lives, then we also become responsible for…

Obviously, the pain women endure during an abortion varies greatly. To learn more about how abortion clinics present the anesthesia…

Abortion is an obvious death experience but few realize that truth when they make this choice. Society often communicates that if you make…

Elderly post-abortive people exist all over the world. Many often encounter no obvious regret until nearing the end of their lives. Some…

Accurate statistics on the demographics of post-abortive people is nearly impossible to discover for many reasons. I cite abortion…

God blessed our year by allowing us to minister to abortion’s wounded at a new and deeper level. Many of you have prayed for our efforts…

During Christmas, many discover that their emotional and spiritual pain related to an abortion choice can peak, robbing them of any…

Post-abortive women often spout their abortion truth in the most unlikely moments. This need for validation is intense when the initial…

Everyone is impacted by abortion, whether they know it or not. If you care about people who have chosen abortion, here are nine things to…

Immediately after abortion, many post-abortive people enjoy a period of relief. The anxiety of an unexpected pregnancy has been resolved…

Sydna Massé is a rare pro-life speaker when she shares her story of walking into an abortion clinic and losing her child. Watch this video…

The biological impact of abortion is often the least understood aspect of this choice due to the lack of scientific research. That fact…

Abortion is completely hypothetical until you find yourself in a potential unexpected pregnancy. A pregnancy scare can lead anyone to…

For women who have chosen abortion, the “pain-capable” point can blow their minds. Post-abortive women have often bought the lie that…

When a family unit is steeped in dysfunction, sexual abuse and abortions abound. Grandmothers or mothers who aborted often encourage…

Abortions are typically decided in times of great turmoil. When women share that they had an abortion, the deep details rarely follow this…

If someone walks back into an abortion clinic to abort again, they typically re-live their first abortion emotionally, spiritually…

The requirement that, “You must be post-abortive,” astounded me. Nothing rattles me more than when abortion recovery programs openly…

Judy concluded, “Put a stone in this basket and write on it the name of every life God touches through your lovely heart. This basket will…

Abortion finds many of us at a crossroads. Individuals can easily forget the added dysfunction they endured because they chose abortion…

Sadly, when she discovered the father of my baby was 25 years older than me, her decision on my having an abortion was final. I had no…

You and I – the wounded women who chose abortion and then regretted it – comprise the highest echelons of corporate life, service and…

“When I looked into my newborn child’s face, all I could think about was the child that I cannot hold this side of heaven,” the woman…

“I don’t know how I’d ever have gotten through this without your help, Sydna,” a ministry contact outlined in a letter I saved nearly…

“I’ve confessed my sin, Sydna, to you and God,” the woman outlined. “I’ve attended a weekend abortion recovery retreat as well. Why isn’t…

“Here are 4 murderers making their way into an abortion clinic to allow their children to be torn to bits,” the Facebook post outlined…

“My baby came out while I was in the bathtub, Sydna,” the distraught caller outlined. “My child’s body looked so human with arms, legs and…

“I am always angry these days,” the post-abortive woman outlined. “My mother forced me to abort. She took me to the clinic, waited outside…

“I was a crying mess all Mother’s Day, Sydna,” the abortion recovery leader outlined. “This grief crept up on me. I didn’t think it would…

Abortion impacts a woman’s body, soul and mind. The simple fact that post-abortive women rarely share this truth with others confirms that…

Abortion impacts everyone, whether they know it or not. It is a choice that influences not only the woman but also everyone related to…

“I think that sharing my story will help me heal,” the post-abortive caller outlined. “Perhaps God can use me to save one child’s life!”

Abortion is rarely an “easy” choice for women, despite a woman’s behavior when encountering pro-life people who are praying or protesting…

“My abortion was a few days ago. I can’t move or talk to anyone, including my husband. I have so much regret I’m usually asleep by now and…

I am a murderer by all definitions. By my choice, a human being was destroyed. Because of the legalities of this choice, I will serve no…

“If an ultrasound revealed their birth defects, I would have certainly aborted your sisters, Sydna,“ my mother outlined casually. “Why…

“Can I have a cigarette first?” Norma McCorvey, the infamous “Jane Roe” in the Roe v. Wade case that legalized abortion in America, stood…

“I’ve never felt so sad in my whole life, Sydna,” a post-abortive woman shared. “My child has been gone for 25 years. Why did it take so…

Family histories that include abortion often contain many other traumatic events. Unplanned pregnancy often results during deep family…

“I don’t know why all of this pain from my abortions are impacting my heart right now,” the post-abortive woman outlined. “Why did I not…

In the early years after my abortion, I might have been part of Saturday’s “March of the Pink Pussy-Cat Hat Women.” Finding my pro-choice…

Today we stand at a new point in America’s history with abortion. This week’s Presidential Inauguration is set to usher in tremendous…

My seven year old’s innocence was shattered in my answering his question. “Abortion is when they take the baby out of a Mommy’s tummy…

Sydna Massé provides an update on the ministry accomplishments of Ramah International in 2016 along with plans for ministry advancement in…

“I should have a sleeping babe in my arms, Sydna, enjoying his first Christmas,” a recently post-abortive women shared. “Abortion is a…

“How could I have walked into that place and allowed them to take my child?” the caller asked. “I had no clue an abortion would feel like…

“When I became a parent, I felt like I was truly living. I had a purpose, where before I didn’t,” singer Adele confessed in an early 2016…

“My wife had an abortion after she was raped,” a husband outlined during a ministry conversation. “She often outlines that the abortion…

“I’m afraid of meeting my child in heaven when I die,” the elderly woman lamented as she waited for me to sign her copy of my book, Her…

There was nearly an audible gasp around our nation when Hillary Clinton defended a late term abortion procedure in the last presidential…

“I don’t know how anyone who claims to know Christ could ever abort,” a woman stated as we shared a meal at a pregnancy center…

It’s my baby’s due date next week, Sydna,” the writer outlined. “How do I cope with this reminder each and every year for the rest of my…

For those experiencing Abortion PTSD, it is normal for sights, sounds, smells and even feelings they encountered during the time of their…

“I feel like I’m in a grief pit with no way out and no one to talk to,” the grandparent of an aborted child painfully outlined. “I don’t…

“God cannot forgive my abortion sin, Sydna,” a post-abortive woman concluded during a phone conversation. “The blood of my child will…

Abortion changes everything, whether the mother or father knows it or not. It can be decided in panic and regretted forever. Afterwards…

Brock looked at her, the deep love that had been in his eyes now replaced with horror. He’d found that word, put it over her name, and…

“Is abortion a sin?” The caller asked, quietly sobbing. I answered her question with another question, “What do you think?” “Abortion…

Abortion changes everything. In leaving an abortion clinic, one is dead while the mother is typically wounded in some way. Initially…

“Will this affect me emotionally or psychologically?” I asked the abortion clinic worker before my abortion. With a smile, she proclaimed…

A woman cannot get pregnant alone. Society often places the entire responsibility for an abortion choice on the mother who walked into the…

Whether you realize it or not, you know someone who has chosen abortion. Abortion is so common an experience that it is embedded at every…

“This is the place where we do the great evil. Will God ever forgive us?” the Russian nurse commented as she opened a large door to her…

Abortion impacts everyone, whether they know it or not. It is a choice that influences not only the woman but also everyone related to…

Many women view the pain of placing a baby for adoption as more excruciating than having an abortion. While society has joy for an…

On my aborted child’s due date, I found myself crying all night. As I applied a hot washcloth to my eyes the next morning, I began to…

“I asked God to stop me if aborting wasn’t His will for my life. When He didn’t, I felt it was okay. Why didn’t He stop me, Sydna?” the…

“I must have been sleeping for the last ten years,” the caller screamed. “I’ve been blinded to the horrors of my own abortion. I lived in…

Imagine receiving a call from a survey company who asks, “Has anyone in your home experienced abortion?” If you are post-abortive, would…

Women do not get pregnant by themselves. Rarely do they end up in abortion clinics without being impacted by the opinion of others…

“Watching your abortion testimony changed my life, Sydna,” the caller outlined. “I’ve never known anyone like you who has struggled after…

“The pastor said my abortion is an unforgivable sin because I blasphemed the Holy Spirit in rejecting His gift of life,” a post-abortive…

“I don’t understand why women aren’t flooding onto platforms to share their abortion truth, Sydna,” a male pro-life leader declared during…

“When I became a parent, I felt like I was truly living. I had a purpose, where before I didn’t,” singer Adele confessed in a March, 2016…

“This is an abortion clinic! What is she doing here?” I thought upon noticing a stranger entering the room. “She does not look like a…

Abortion seemed like a lie worth believing when I discovered my unplanned pregnancy in my local Planned Parenthood office at 19 years of…

“You aren’t giving women the hope of seeing their children in heaven, are you, Sydna?” an abortion recovery leader probed me during an…

“I’ve had too many abortions, Sydna,” the caller outlined. “God simply cannot forgive me.” My response is always the same – There is no…

“The list of Abortion PTSD symptoms is endless,” the father of a post-abortive woman wrote despondently. “Abortion is something people…

“You are my dreams fulfilled, Sydna,” my Irish maternal grandfather announced upon meeting me at 5 years old. “You are my American…

Madeleine Albright apologized in the NY Times this weekend for her February 5, 2016 statement supporting Hillary Clinton, where she…

NARAL (National Abortion Rights Action League) is angry that during the 50th Superbowl, @Doritos used what they call, “an #antichoice…

When it comes to a past abortion, embracing a recovery class seems like an agonizing concept but it can truly lead to God’s restoration of…

Signs bearing the message, “We are the pro-life generation that will abolish abortion!” will be in full view in Washington this week…

After abortion, most women commit to forgetting it ever happened. Secrecy is essential as societal judgment and shame is to be avoided at…

It was the National Day of Prayer on May 2, 1996. Kerry Steven Dore, who carried a handgun and claimed to have explosives strapped to his…

After abortion, many come to a point of asking themselves, “Okay, so I had an abortion. But that is in the past. Do I really need to be…

“No one will ever have to know you were pregnant,” the orderly at my abortion clinic outlined dryly. “You can go on with your life as if…

“I know you had an abortion, Sydna!” my mother screamed at the end of a horrific telephone argument in 1985. My abortion four years…

“That was the Planned Parenthood where I learned about my unplanned pregnancy in 1981,” I pointed out to Sarah Buler as we looked out the…

Last month I walked among an amazing group of heroes at the 2015 CareNet conference. Pregnancy center personnel from all over the nation…

Planned Parenthood’s touting a July, 2015 Plos One research study that,“examined women’s emotions and reports of whether the abortion…

Planned Parenthood’s recent encouragement to women to tweet their abortion truth using #ShoutYourAbortion will have a long lasting impact…

The caller shouted in my ear, “How dare she compare her loss to my miscarriage. After all, she MURDERED her child!” No one had ever…

In working with tens of thousands of post-abortive individuals, Ramah finds it is often difficult for these hearts to resolve the issue of…

The concept of a funeral service for my aborted child seemed overwhelming back in 1992. My leader then outlined another truth, “During…

“There is no sin that God can’t forgive – even abortion,” Dr. James Dobson outlined during my first day working at Focus on the Family in…

“I thought they killed you up there!” my boyfriend announced as he met me outside the abortion clinic where my unborn child had just died…

“Why would I want to hold your hand?” I naively responded to the “nurse” at the abortion clinic as she helped me onto the surgical table…

Abortion was the only solution presented that day and my boyfriend insisted it was my only “choice.” I left that Planned Parenthood clinic…

This blog is for those post-abortive readers feeling the call to attend various Planned Parenthood protest events (Women Betrayed, etc.)…

It is nearly trite to say that my abortion experience marked my life deeply. Any form of pregnancy loss is memorable. If not grieved…

One has to wonder, “What would happen if restaurants were never inspected?” In equating abortion clinic inspections to eating…

“Sydna, I’m afraid that if I cry for my aborted child, I won’t be able to stop,” my lunch partner confessed. “I’m not suicidal at all. I…

As someone who chose abortion in my teen years, I understand the various emotions that many experience immediately after abortion. At that…

While abortion is a death experience, rarely do post-abortive people give themselves permission to grieve. Since we made the choice to…

A man can never say, “I had an abortion.” That doesn’t mean when a man’s child is aborted that he hasn’t experienced Abortion PTSD at an…

“Will this affect me, emotionally or psychologically?” I asked the attendant at the abortion clinic before signing their required intake…

If you are one of the millions of women who have experienced abortion, you know that the memories associated with this experience can be…

“If she isn’t comfortable being called murderer, then she’s not healed!” the FB comment outlined on a shared post of my recent blog…

The third week in March was always a bad week for me after my abortion in 1981. Without knowing anything about Abortion PTSD, I never…

Your daughter reveals the dreaded truth, “I had an abortion.” Your mind reacts with thoughts like, “It cannot be… What? Why? How come my…

Many people have the urge to “set us straight” about our abortion loss. Please understand that our level of healing cannot be judged by…

“I can’t go to that pregnancy center for abortion recovery. It’s right next to the Right to Life offices and I’m scared of those people,”…

A post-abortive person’s heart can be split – before and after the abortion. Every element of my life changed when my child died in that…

“I don’t support what you did, but I’m here to support you.” This comment voices disdain for the individual and reverts the conversation…

Many post-abortive individuals report they are apprehensive of judgment and rejection from pro-life individuals specifically. Most relay…

It was a lonely spot being one of the first women to pioneer sharing an abortion testimony on a public platform. When I taped my first…

Anxiety over fertility and childbearing issues is a common element of Abortion PTSD. Some women maintain a fear that they might never…

A large percentage of women (and men) feel clear relief after an abortion because their unplanned pregnancy has been “resolved.” Many go…

Rarely will a woman confess to a past abortion. Even more uncommon is for involved friends or family members to bring up the topic…

Post-abortive individuals often view their choice to abort as unforgivable in the eyes of God. Many also struggle in forgiving others who…

For most of us who made this choice, this is a secret we dare not share. If people – even loved ones – knew about our abortion decision…

Imagine receiving a call from a survey company asking, “Has anyone in your home experienced abortion?”

Abortion has become a common American experience. Just because we, the post-abortive, don’t talk about it doesn’t mean it’s not impacting…

I want to invite you into one of the most private moments of my life. It was the moment my life was sliced in two, if you will. I say it…

Realize that the post-abortive are always within listening range. Many have overheard judgmental conversations that relayed messages like…

As someone who chose abortion in my teen years, I understand the various emotions that many post-abortive people endure afterwards. Today…

Think of it like a brownie that has salmonella included in the recipe. Would you eat that brownie? I wouldn’t. So we have made the…

While abortion recovery video based programs seem popular, I strongly urge a re-evaluation of their overall use.

There is clear reason for alarm. The U.S. government seems adamant in expanding abortion rights at a level we never anticipated – both…

This past summer our family was forced to file for personal bankruptcy. The Deepwater Horizon Oil Spill may be a memory to most of you but…

One third of all American women are post-abortive. You encounter us – in supermarkets, teaching your children, running day care centers…

Over the years I have met a handful of women who truly did heal from this pain miraculously. I’ve never doubted anyone healing initially…

I was hesitant to share my abortion secret with anyone — especially a physician. However, fear of condemnation and my own shame never…

When I started my abortion recovery class, I was only there because of God. Our Creator seemed to insist in so many ways that I attend. He…

Many of us who have been raised in traumatic circumstances have a hard time understanding the nature of love. “God is love.” What does…

Imagine the bus or the subway or the car that takes you to work, then erase the females commuting alongside you. Erase your wife and your…

The vehicle then cut across our traffic lane ahead of us and hit the right embankment very hard. As Tom pulled our car to a stop, we…

Our concept of “home” often depends on what we learned about this abode in the past. If home life was difficult and painful, achieving…

One of the biggest battles in the abortion issue has been over whether or not post-abortion syndrome (PAS), a form of Post-Traumatic…
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