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Sydna Massé

Sydna Massé is the founder and CEO of Ramah International and the author of Her Choice to Heal. These are her posts on healing after abortion.

173 posts

8 Reasons Women Abort Again and Again

August 18, 20265 min read

8 Reasons Women Abort Again and Again

“I allowed 4 of my children to die through abortion, Sydna,” the caller outlined through tears. “I am a serial killer who deserves prison!”

My Abortionist’s Remains Vlog

November 12, 20197 min read

My Abortionist’s Remains Vlog

I never got his name, but I’ll never forget his voice or the brutal touch he used while performing my abortion. In struggling against the…

My Abortionist’s Remains

October 1, 20196 min read

My Abortionist’s Remains

They say abortion is a woman’s choice. Half an hour earlier, my boyfriend stated he would leave me in the streets of Indianapolis if I…

Google’s Abortion Tyranny

June 4, 20196 min read

Google’s Abortion Tyranny

Last week Internet giant, Google, BANNED pro-life pregnancy centers from buying Adwords related to the term, “abortion.” Organizations or…

Her Choice Not to Heal After Abortion

November 6, 20186 min read

Her Choice Not to Heal After Abortion

When a woman leaves an abortion clinic, one is dead, and one is wounded. The wounded woman typically feels immediate relief. That respite…

How Will Post-Abortive Women Vote?

October 30, 20186 min read

How Will Post-Abortive Women Vote?

Democrat pollsters believe they can take back the Senate because they are counting on the female vote. But what about the one third of…

Respecting an Abortion Secret

October 9, 20186 min read

Respecting an Abortion Secret

“I was wondering if you would help connect me with anyone that would be willing to share their abortion story and speak into the darkness…

Does God Approve of Abortion?

September 18, 20186 min read

Does God Approve of Abortion?

Many faith-based hearts prayed before they aborted, asking for God to intervene if this wasn’t His will for them. These ambiguous prayers…

Oprah’s #ShoutYourAbortion Fallout

September 11, 20186 min read

Oprah’s #ShoutYourAbortion Fallout

This abortion proud hashtag has now been tweeted over 300,000 times. Whatever the reasons for participating in this promotion, the use of…

Hope After Abortion

August 14, 20181 min read

Message of Hope to Abortion’s Wounded

Our team is here to help anyone struggling after an abortion decision. Please know that there is no sin that God cannot forgive, even…

Friends After Abortion

August 7, 20187 min read

The Return of Abortion’s Exiled Women

At some point, God reaches through the darkness of a woman’s self-imposed exile to call His children back into His fellowship. It is then…

Pregnancy Center Training

July 31, 20181 min read

Pregnancy Center Training Seminar 2012

Sydna Massé shares the story of how God led her to join an abortion recovery class and the impact that healing had on her ministry…

Aborted Child

July 17, 20186 min read

The Revenant of an Aborted Child

Revenant is defined as one that returns after death or a long absence. For many post-abortive people, being haunted by their “blob of…

Forget an Abortion

July 10, 20186 min read

Fighting Forgetfulness After Abortion

After abortion, women typically work to forget they ever made such a choice. If pain and grief don’t manifest themselves quickly, they can…

Friend Had an Abortion

June 26, 20185 min read

If She Doesn’t Know You Know

If you know a loved one who may be maintaining an abortion secret, confronting them directly about this truth may not be God’s best plan…

Abortion Pain

June 19, 20186 min read

#MeToo and Abortion Pain

“My abortion was far more traumatic than the rape, Sydna,” the young woman shared during an abortion recovery program I was leading. “Why…

Abortion Recovery Programs

June 12, 20187 min read

Pro-Choice Abortion Recovery Programs

Pro-choice efforts to comfort those who may be upset after their abortion typically has only one goal – to reinforce that their abortion…

Children and Abortion

May 15, 20186 min read

What’s Abortion, Mom?

When questions about abortion come out of the blue, parents are often unprepared for these deeper queries from their young children.

Abortion Antagonists

May 8, 20186 min read

The Deadly Impact of Abortion Antagonists

A woman doesn’t make an abortion decision in a bubble. She typically enlists the insight and “wisdom” of others. Many then assume the role…

Helping the Post-Abortive

April 24, 20186 min read

Help Someone Who May be Post-Abortive

If you know someone who may be maintaining an abortion secret, bringing up your knowledge of their abortion directly can be wounding. A…

Abortion and Murder

March 27, 20187 min read

Healing for Abortion’s Bloodguilt

When a woman exits an abortion clinic, leaving her child behind, she is often deeply wounded. She also assumes a new title from society if…

The Irish Abortion Vote

March 13, 20186 min read

The Irish Abortion Vote

Nowhere in the world is abortion more unusual than in Ireland. One of the few common elements in the South and North of Ireland is the…

Babies Lives Saved

March 6, 20186 min read

The Ministry Fruit of An Aborted Child

We simply should never take God’s fruit as our own. If we take the personal credit for saving lives, then we also become responsible for…

Abortion Anesthesia and Pain

February 27, 20185 min read

Abortion Anesthesia and Pain

Obviously, the pain women endure during an abortion varies greatly. To learn more about how abortion clinics present the anesthesia…

Tears After Abortion

February 13, 20186 min read

The Health Benefits of Tears After Abortion

Abortion is an obvious death experience but few realize that truth when they make this choice. Society often communicates that if you make…

Abortion Pain in the Elderly

January 30, 20186 min read

Abortion Pain in the Elderly Heart

Elderly post-abortive people exist all over the world. Many often encounter no obvious regret until nearing the end of their lives. Some…

How Many Women Choose Abortion

January 23, 20186 min read

How Many Women Have Chosen Abortion?

Accurate statistics on the demographics of post-abortive people is nearly impossible to discover for many reasons. I cite abortion…

Ministering to the Abortion Wounded

December 28, 20177 min read

Ministering to Abortion’s Wounded Hearts

God blessed our year by allowing us to minister to abortion’s wounded at a new and deeper level. Many of you have prayed for our efforts…

Tell You About Her Abortion

December 4, 20176 min read

Did She Tell You About Her Abortion?

Post-abortive women often spout their abortion truth in the most unlikely moments. This need for validation is intense when the initial…

Help Someone After Abortion

November 27, 20176 min read

9 Ways to Help Someone After Abortion

Everyone is impacted by abortion, whether they know it or not. If you care about people who have chosen abortion, here are nine things to…

Thanksgiving Triggers After Abortion

November 13, 20175 min read

Thanksgiving Triggers After Abortion

Immediately after abortion, many post-abortive people enjoy a period of relief. The anxiety of an unexpected pregnancy has been resolved…

Sydna Massé

November 6, 20171 min read

A Personal Abortion Story by Sydna Massé

Sydna Massé is a rare pro-life speaker when she shares her story of walking into an abortion clinic and losing her child. Watch this video…

Biological Impacts of Abortion

October 30, 20175 min read

Four Biological Impacts of Abortion

The biological impact of abortion is often the least understood aspect of this choice due to the lack of scientific research. That fact…

Think I'm Pregnant

October 16, 20176 min read

Pregnancy Scare!

Abortion is completely hypothetical until you find yourself in a potential unexpected pregnancy. A pregnancy scare can lead anyone to…

Baby Pain During Abortion

October 2, 20176 min read

Realizing Fetal Pain During Abortion

For women who have chosen abortion, the “pain-capable” point can blow their minds. Post-abortive women have often bought the lie that…

Abortion Over Generations

September 25, 20175 min read

Abortion’s Generational Curse

When a family unit is steeped in dysfunction, sexual abuse and abortions abound. Grandmothers or mothers who aborted often encourage…

Helping Wife After Abortion

September 18, 20177 min read

Helping Your Wife Heal After Abortion

Abortions are typically decided in times of great turmoil. When women share that they had an abortion, the deep details rarely follow this…

Reasons Not to Abort Again

September 11, 20176 min read

7 Reasons Not to Abort Again

If someone walks back into an abortion clinic to abort again, they typically re-live their first abortion emotionally, spiritually…

Help the Post Abortive

August 28, 20176 min read

You Must Be Post-Abortive!

The requirement that, “You must be post-abortive,” astounded me. Nothing rattles me more than when abortion recovery programs openly…

Ramah International

August 14, 20176 min read

Our Ministry Rocks

Judy concluded, “Put a stone in this basket and write on it the name of every life God touches through your lovely heart. This basket will…

Abortion Survivor Guilt

August 7, 20176 min read

Abortion’s Survivor Guilt

Abortion finds many of us at a crossroads. Individuals can easily forget the added dysfunction they endured because they chose abortion…

When Abortion is a Family Secret

July 31, 20176 min read

When Abortion is a Family Secret

Sadly, when she discovered the father of my baby was 25 years older than me, her decision on my having an abortion was final. I had no…

An Appeal to Post-Abortive Women

July 24, 20176 min read

An Appeal to Post-Abortive Women

You and I – the wounded women who chose abortion and then regretted it – comprise the highest echelons of corporate life, service and…

Abortion’s Haunting Impact

July 17, 20175 min read

Abortion’s Haunting Impact

“When I looked into my newborn child’s face, all I could think about was the child that I cannot hold this side of heaven,” the woman…

I Never Heard From Them Again

July 10, 20175 min read

I Never Heard From Them Again

“I don’t know how I’d ever have gotten through this without your help, Sydna,” a ministry contact outlined in a letter I saved nearly…

God’s Purpose in Abortion Pain

June 26, 20176 min read

God’s Purpose in Abortion Pain

“I’ve confessed my sin, Sydna, to you and God,” the woman outlined. “I’ve attended a weekend abortion recovery retreat as well. Why isn’t…

You Never Know Who’s Listening

June 19, 20176 min read

You Never Know Who’s Listening

“Here are 4 murderers making their way into an abortion clinic to allow their children to be torn to bits,” the Facebook post outlined…

The Traumatic Impact of Medication Abortion

June 12, 20175 min read

The Traumatic Impact of Medication Abortion

“My baby came out while I was in the bathtub, Sydna,” the distraught caller outlined. “My child’s body looked so human with arms, legs and…

5 Types of Anger After Abortion

June 5, 20176 min read

5 Types of Anger After Abortion

“I am always angry these days,” the post-abortive woman outlined. “My mother forced me to abort. She took me to the clinic, waited outside…

Ongoing Grief After Abortion

May 22, 20176 min read

Ongoing Grief After Abortion

“I was a crying mess all Mother’s Day, Sydna,” the abortion recovery leader outlined. “This grief crept up on me. I didn’t think it would…

5 Burdens of Abortion

May 15, 20175 min read

5 Burdens of Abortion

Abortion impacts a woman’s body, soul and mind. The simple fact that post-abortive women rarely share this truth with others confirms that…

6 Ways Abortion Can Impact the Family

May 8, 20174 min read

6 Ways Abortion Can Impact the Family

Abortion impacts everyone, whether they know it or not. It is a choice that influences not only the woman but also everyone related to…

4 Costs of Sharing an Abortion Secret

April 24, 20177 min read

4 Costs of Sharing an Abortion Secret

“I think that sharing my story will help me heal,” the post-abortive caller outlined. “Perhaps God can use me to save one child’s life!”

5 Spiritual Weights of Abortion

April 17, 20176 min read

5 Spiritual Weights of Abortion

Abortion is rarely an “easy” choice for women, despite a woman’s behavior when encountering pro-life people who are praying or protesting…

Postpartum Depression After Abortion

April 10, 20176 min read

Postpartum Depression After Abortion

“My abortion was a few days ago. I can’t move or talk to anyone, including my husband. I have so much regret I’m usually asleep by now and…

Abortion’s Fake News

April 3, 20176 min read

Abortion’s Fake News

I am a murderer by all definitions. By my choice, a human being was destroyed. Because of the legalities of this choice, I will serve no…

The Impact of Aborting Imperfect Humans

March 27, 20175 min read

The Impact of Aborting Imperfect Humans

“If an ultrasound revealed their birth defects, I would have certainly aborted your sisters, Sydna,“ my mother outlined casually. “Why…

4 Stages of After Abortion Sadness

February 13, 20174 min read

4 Stages of After Abortion Sadness

“I’ve never felt so sad in my whole life, Sydna,” a post-abortive woman shared. “My child has been gone for 25 years. Why did it take so…

5 Stages of Denial After Abortion

January 30, 20175 min read

5 Stages of Denial After Abortion

“I don’t know why all of this pain from my abortions are impacting my heart right now,” the post-abortive woman outlined. “Why did I not…

I Would Have Marched in a Pink Pussy-Cat Hat

January 23, 20174 min read

I Would Have Marched in a Pink Pussy-Cat Hat

In the early years after my abortion, I might have been part of Saturday’s “March of the Pink Pussy-Cat Hat Women.” Finding my pro-choice…

Dislodging America’s Abortion Pain

January 16, 20174 min read

Dislodging America’s Abortion Pain

Today we stand at a new point in America’s history with abortion. This week’s Presidential Inauguration is set to usher in tremendous…

Mom, What’s Abortion?

January 9, 20174 min read

Mom, What’s Abortion?

My seven year old’s innocence was shattered in my answering his question. “Abortion is when they take the baby out of a Mommy’s tummy…

Sydna Massé

December 28, 20165 min read

Ramah International 2016 Ministry Update

Sydna Massé provides an update on the ministry accomplishments of Ramah International in 2016 along with plans for ministry advancement in…

Making Abortion Unthinkable

November 28, 20164 min read

Making Abortion Unthinkable

“How could I have walked into that place and allowed them to take my child?” the caller asked. “I had no clue an abortion would feel like…

Adele, Abortion and Motherhood

November 21, 20164 min read

Adele, Abortion and Motherhood

“When I became a parent, I felt like I was truly living. I had a purpose, where before I didn’t,” singer Adele confessed in an early 2016…

Abortion and Sexual Abuse

November 14, 20164 min read

Abortion and Sexual Abuse

“My wife had an abortion after she was raped,” a husband outlined during a ministry conversation. “She often outlines that the abortion…

Abortion’s Impact on the Elderly

October 31, 20164 min read

Abortion’s Impact on the Elderly

“I’m afraid of meeting my child in heaven when I die,” the elderly woman lamented as she waited for me to sign her copy of my book, Her…

The Post-Abortive Woman’s Vote

October 24, 20164 min read

The Post-Abortive Woman’s Vote

There was nearly an audible gasp around our nation when Hillary Clinton defended a late term abortion procedure in the last presidential…

When A Christian Aborts

October 17, 20164 min read

When A Christian Aborts

“I don’t know how anyone who claims to know Christ could ever abort,” a woman stated as we shared a meal at a pregnancy center…

8 Common Triggers of After Abortion Pain

October 3, 20164 min read

8 Common Triggers of After Abortion Pain

For those experiencing Abortion PTSD, it is normal for sights, sounds, smells and even feelings they encountered during the time of their…

Abortion’s Bloodguilt: He Died for That!

September 24, 20164 min read

Abortion’s Bloodguilt: He Died for That!

“God cannot forgive my abortion sin, Sydna,” a post-abortive woman concluded during a phone conversation. “The blood of my child will…

After Abortion Segregation

September 19, 20164 min read

After Abortion Segregation

Abortion changes everything, whether the mother or father knows it or not. It can be decided in panic and regretted forever. Afterwards…

A Novel Approach to Abortion

September 12, 20165 min read

A Novel Approach to Abortion

Brock looked at her, the deep love that had been in his eyes now replaced with horror. He’d found that word, put it over her name, and…

Is Abortion a Sin?

August 29, 20164 min read

Is Abortion a Sin?

“Is abortion a sin?” The caller asked, quietly sobbing. I answered her question with another question, “What do you think?” “Abortion…

4 Ways Abortion Wounds Women

August 1, 20164 min read

4 Ways Abortion Wounds Women

“Will this affect me emotionally or psychologically?” I asked the abortion clinic worker before my abortion. With a smile, she proclaimed…

4 Male Mindsets that Influence Abortion

July 25, 20164 min read

4 Male Mindsets that Influence Abortion

A woman cannot get pregnant alone. Society often places the entire responsibility for an abortion choice on the mother who walked into the…

Compassionately Address a Past Abortion

July 18, 20164 min read

Compassionately Address a Past Abortion

Whether you realize it or not, you know someone who has chosen abortion. Abortion is so common an experience that it is embedded at every…

6 Impacts of Abortion on the Family

July 8, 20164 min read

6 Impacts of Abortion on the Family

Abortion impacts everyone, whether they know it or not. It is a choice that influences not only the woman but also everyone related to…

Why Women Choose Abortion Over Adoption

June 27, 20164 min read

Why Women Choose Abortion Over Adoption

Many women view the pain of placing a baby for adoption as more excruciating than having an abortion. While society has joy for an…

Abortion’s Anniversary Anguish

June 20, 20163 min read

Abortion’s Anniversary Anguish

On my aborted child’s due date, I found myself crying all night. As I applied a hot washcloth to my eyes the next morning, I began to…

Why Didn’t God Stop Me?

June 13, 20164 min read

Why Didn’t God Stop Me?

“I asked God to stop me if aborting wasn’t His will for my life. When He didn’t, I felt it was okay. Why didn’t He stop me, Sydna?” the…

Justice After Abortion

June 6, 20164 min read

Justice After Abortion

“I must have been sleeping for the last ten years,” the caller screamed. “I’ve been blinded to the horrors of my own abortion. I lived in…

Post-Abortive Women Cannot Be Researched

May 16, 20164 min read

Post-Abortive Women Cannot Be Researched

Imagine receiving a call from a survey company who asks, “Has anyone in your home experienced abortion?” If you are post-abortive, would…

Forgiving Abortion Enablers

May 9, 20164 min read

Forgiving Abortion Enablers

Women do not get pregnant by themselves. Rarely do they end up in abortion clinics without being impacted by the opinion of others…

3 Common Mindsets After Abortion

May 2, 20164 min read

3 Common Mindsets After Abortion

“Watching your abortion testimony changed my life, Sydna,” the caller outlined. “I’ve never known anyone like you who has struggled after…

God’s Forgiveness After Abortion

April 25, 20164 min read

God’s Forgiveness After Abortion

“The pastor said my abortion is an unforgivable sin because I blasphemed the Holy Spirit in rejecting His gift of life,” a post-abortive…

The Right to Remain Silent After Abortion

April 18, 20165 min read

The Right to Remain Silent After Abortion

“I don’t understand why women aren’t flooding onto platforms to share their abortion truth, Sydna,” a male pro-life leader declared during…

Adele, Motherhood and Abortion

April 14, 20164 min read

Adele, Motherhood and Abortion

“When I became a parent, I felt like I was truly living. I had a purpose, where before I didn’t,” singer Adele confessed in a March, 2016…

Stranger at the Abortion Clinic

April 11, 20164 min read

Stranger at the Abortion Clinic

“This is an abortion clinic! What is she doing here?” I thought upon noticing a stranger entering the room. “She does not look like a…

Eight Lies About Abortion

April 4, 20164 min read

Eight Lies About Abortion

Abortion seemed like a lie worth believing when I discovered my unplanned pregnancy in my local Planned Parenthood office at 19 years of…

Abortion: Heaven’s Hope

March 28, 20164 min read

Abortion: Heaven’s Hope

“You aren’t giving women the hope of seeing their children in heaven, are you, Sydna?” an abortion recovery leader probed me during an…

Abolishing Abortion Strongholds

March 17, 20164 min read

Abolishing Abortion Strongholds

“I’ve had too many abortions, Sydna,” the caller outlined. “God simply cannot forgive me.” My response is always the same – There is no…

Abortion’s Sinful Women

March 14, 20164 min read

Abortion’s Sinful Women

“The list of Abortion PTSD symptoms is endless,” the father of a post-abortive woman wrote despondently. “Abortion is something people…

Abortion: A Special Place in Hell

February 15, 20164 min read

Abortion: A Special Place in Hell

Madeleine Albright apologized in the NY Times this weekend for her February 5, 2016 statement supporting Hillary Clinton, where she…

#1in3 Abortion’s Broken Women

February 1, 20164 min read

#1in3 Abortion’s Broken Women

When it comes to a past abortion, embracing a recovery class seems like an agonizing concept but it can truly lead to God’s restoration of…

Aborting A Millennial

January 18, 20164 min read

Aborting A Millennial

Signs bearing the message, “We are the pro-life generation that will abolish abortion!” will be in full view in Washington this week…

Dreams After Abortion

January 11, 20164 min read

Dreams After Abortion

After abortion, most women commit to forgetting it ever happened. Secrecy is essential as societal judgment and shame is to be avoided at…

5 Steps to Begin Healing After Abortion

November 30, 20154 min read

5 Steps to Begin Healing After Abortion

After abortion, many come to a point of asking themselves, “Okay, so I had an abortion. But that is in the past. Do I really need to be…

#1in3Speaks Increasing Abortion’s Stigma

November 17, 20154 min read

#1in3Speaks Increasing Abortion’s Stigma

“No one will ever have to know you were pregnant,” the orderly at my abortion clinic outlined dryly. “You can go on with your life as if…

#PregnancyCenters – Walking Among Heroes

October 10, 20154 min read

#PregnancyCenters – Walking Among Heroes

Last month I walked among an amazing group of heroes at the 2015 CareNet conference. Pregnancy center personnel from all over the nation…

#AbortionDistortion Abortion Regret

October 3, 20154 min read

#AbortionDistortion Abortion Regret

Planned Parenthood’s touting a July, 2015 Plos One research study that,“examined women’s emotions and reports of whether the abortion…

#ShoutYourAbortion Consequences

September 28, 20155 min read

#ShoutYourAbortion Consequences

Planned Parenthood’s recent encouragement to women to tweet their abortion truth using #ShoutYourAbortion will have a long lasting impact…

Paralyzing Post-Abortive Shame

September 8, 20154 min read

Paralyzing Post-Abortive Shame

In working with tens of thousands of post-abortive individuals, Ramah finds it is often difficult for these hearts to resolve the issue of…

Forgiving Myself for Aborting My Child

August 24, 20155 min read

Forgiving Myself for Aborting My Child

“There is no sin that God can’t forgive – even abortion,” Dr. James Dobson outlined during my first day working at Focus on the Family in…

Abortion Influencers: What A Fool Believes

August 17, 20155 min read

Abortion Influencers: What A Fool Believes

“I thought they killed you up there!” my boyfriend announced as he met me outside the abortion clinic where my unborn child had just died…

The REAL War on Women

August 10, 20155 min read

The REAL War on Women

“Why would I want to hold your hand?” I naively responded to the “nurse” at the abortion clinic as she helped me onto the surgical table…

Understanding Abortion’s Wounded Women

August 3, 20155 min read

Understanding Abortion’s Wounded Women

Abortion was the only solution presented that day and my boyfriend insisted it was my only “choice.” I left that Planned Parenthood clinic…

Before Sharing the Secret of Abortion

July 29, 20154 min read

Before Sharing the Secret of Abortion

This blog is for those post-abortive readers feeling the call to attend various Planned Parenthood protest events (Women Betrayed, etc.)…

The Undeniable Stigma of Abortion

July 6, 20155 min read

The Undeniable Stigma of Abortion

It is nearly trite to say that my abortion experience marked my life deeply. Any form of pregnancy loss is memorable. If not grieved…

Abortion Clinics Health Inspections

July 3, 20154 min read

Abortion Clinics Health Inspections

One has to wonder, “What would happen if restaurants were never inspected?” In equating abortion clinic inspections to eating…

Traumatizing Tears After Abortion

June 24, 20153 min read

Traumatizing Tears After Abortion

“Sydna, I’m afraid that if I cry for my aborted child, I won’t be able to stop,” my lunch partner confessed. “I’m not suicidal at all. I…

Immediately After Abortion

June 23, 20154 min read

Immediately After Abortion

As someone who chose abortion in my teen years, I understand the various emotions that many experience immediately after abortion. At that…

Good Grief: Mourning After Abortion

June 22, 20154 min read

Good Grief: Mourning After Abortion

While abortion is a death experience, rarely do post-abortive people give themselves permission to grieve. Since we made the choice to…

Masculine Abortion PTSD

June 19, 20153 min read

Masculine Abortion PTSD

A man can never say, “I had an abortion.” That doesn’t mean when a man’s child is aborted that he hasn’t experienced Abortion PTSD at an…

Dismantling Denial After Abortion

June 17, 20154 min read

Dismantling Denial After Abortion

“Will this affect me, emotionally or psychologically?” I asked the attendant at the abortion clinic before signing their required intake…

Truth vs. Condemnation After Abortion

June 15, 20153 min read

Truth vs. Condemnation After Abortion

“If she isn’t comfortable being called murderer, then she’s not healed!” the FB comment outlined on a shared post of my recent blog…

Mom and Dad, I Have Something To Tell You

June 12, 20154 min read

Mom and Dad, I Have Something To Tell You

Your daughter reveals the dreaded truth, “I had an abortion.” Your mind reacts with thoughts like, “It cannot be… What? Why? How come my…

What Not to Say to Post-Abortive People

June 11, 20152 min read

What Not to Say to Post-Abortive People

Many people have the urge to “set us straight” about our abortion loss. Please understand that our level of healing cannot be judged by…

Addressing Abortion Clinic Verbal Abuse

June 10, 20154 min read

Addressing Abortion Clinic Verbal Abuse

“I can’t go to that pregnancy center for abortion recovery. It’s right next to the Right to Life offices and I’m scared of those people,”…

The Human Face of Abortion

May 21, 20154 min read

The Human Face of Abortion

For most of us who made this choice, this is a secret we dare not share. If people – even loved ones – knew about our abortion decision…

And The Bride Wore White…

August 26, 20135 min read

And The Bride Wore White…

I want to invite you into one of the most private moments of my life. It was the moment my life was sliced in two, if you will. I say it…

The Benefits of Grief

August 31, 20114 min read

The Benefits of Grief

Over the years I have met a handful of women who truly did heal from this pain miraculously. I’ve never doubted anyone healing initially…

Finding the Faith to Face the Pain

August 22, 20115 min read

Finding the Faith to Face the Pain

When I started my abortion recovery class, I was only there because of God. Our Creator seemed to insist in so many ways that I attend. He…

The Dynamics of God’s Love

August 11, 20114 min read

The Dynamics of God’s Love

Many of us who have been raised in traumatic circumstances have a hard time understanding the nature of love. “God is love.” What does…

Missing Women

August 2, 20118 min read

Missing Women

Imagine the bus or the subway or the car that takes you to work, then erase the females commuting alongside you. Erase your wife and your…

Mile Marker 223 – South of Birmingham

June 28, 20119 min read

Mile Marker 223 – South of Birmingham

The vehicle then cut across our traffic lane ahead of us and hit the right embankment very hard. As Tom pulled our car to a stop, we…

Taking Home

June 15, 201113 min read

Taking Home

Our concept of “home” often depends on what we learned about this abode in the past. If home life was difficult and painful, achieving…

Does Post-Abortion Syndrome Exist?

June 13, 201110 min read

Does Post-Abortion Syndrome Exist?

One of the biggest battles in the abortion issue has been over whether or not post-abortion syndrome (PAS), a form of Post-Traumatic…

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